Going back to work after maternity leave is a huge transition for everyone involved. It’s normal to experience lots of different feelings. As a therapist for new mums, I want you to know they’re all valid. You might be desperate to return to work. Maybe you’re looking forward to having some childfree time, stimulating your […]
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As a therapist for new mums, I firmly believe you need and deserve to be nurtured and supported on your journey into motherhood, not just on a practical level but also on an emotional and spiritual level, too. You can read Why Mothers Need Mothering for more on this. While I’ll always advocate for this
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Thinking of visiting a new mum? Excited to shower the baby with gifts, get some cuddles in, and catch up over a cup of tea? Before you go, read this, and learn what NOT to do from a therapist for new mums who’s seen it all… Understanding the Fourth Trimester Pregnancy is divided into three
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Let’s be honest – we all use Google in our day-to-day lives. Whenever we need information, it’s usually our first port of call, so it makes sense that it might feature heavily while you’re navigating pregnancy, birth, and life as a new mum. Whether you’re googling pregnancy symptoms, how to cope with the fourth trimester,
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A theme I often see in my therapy sessions with new mums is anxiety about weaning. After months of milk, the move to solid foods is a big change for everyone. Your baby has to learn a lot of new skills. They need to know how to coordinate their hands, eyes, and mouth to pick
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Do you ever wish you could be a more patient mum? This is something I hear a lot. Parenting is a difficult, tiring job, and the ability to stay calm and settle your emotions is important, but nobody is capable of being patient 100% of the time. Yet this is often what we expect of
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It’s fair to say there’s a lot of pressure to instantly bond with your baby. I think this comes from society and the world around us. It’s based on what we see on TV and in films. We might also hear friends, family members, work colleagues, celebrities and online influencers talking about how they bonded
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One of the most common experiences I see as a therapist for new mums is feeling like a bad mum. Negative or self-critical thoughts are something we all experience throughout our lives, and they’re very common during early motherhood. I’m sure we’ve all been there! Parenting is hard work, and we all have days that
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You’re not failing as a mum if your baby won’t sleep. You’re experiencing one of the most challenging aspects of motherhood – sleep disruption. It feels hard because it is hard. Sleep Disruption – A Universal Parenting Experience Sleep disruption and deprivation is a common and expected experience for new mums. In the first few
You’re Not Failing as a Mum if Your Baby Won’t Sleep – A Therapist’s Perspective Read More »
How would you describe the way you talk to yourself? Specifically, what does the voice inside your head sound like as you go about your day as a mum? Does it tell you you’re doing a good job? Or is it more likely to berate and criticise you? For example, what would it say if
The Way You Talk to Yourself is a Parenting Gamechanger, Here’s Why… Read More »