What Does ‘Triggered’ Actually Mean? Being triggered means you’re experiencing a strong emotional and physical reaction in the present which is strongly linked to unprocessed past experiences. It’s a response that can happen in any situation where something feels similar to a previous traumatic experience. Essentially, you’re reliving the past in the present moment. The […]
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In my experience, unsolicited advice and motherhood go hand in hand. It often starts in pregnancy when we share our hopes and desires, perhaps related to labour and birth. Imagine telling someone you’re planning a homebirth and they respond by reeling off a list of awful reasons you shouldn’t. You can even find yourself on
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I’ve written extensively about your inner critic and how it can leave you feeling like a bad mum when really, you’re anything but. In this article, we’re going to explore the topic in more depth. As well as outlining three different types of inner critic, I’ll describe what each one sounds like and explain how
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Social Media & Motherhood – Let’s Look at the Positives Social media can definitely play a positive role in your motherhood journey. For example, it’s somewhere you can experience a sense of community. Making online mum friends through forums and support groups can be very beneficial, particularly for those who are isolated from family and
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Do you struggle to feel like a good mum? You’re not alone – it’s something I see time and time again in the therapy room. Negative or self-critical thoughts are something we all experience throughout our lives, and they’re very common during early motherhood. In fact, one of the most popular search terms new mums
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Putting your baby in childcare can trigger lots of emotions, particularly guilt and anxiety. Whether your child is going to nursery or a childminder, or even staying with a trusted family member, it can be an emotionally difficult time. 3 Reasons You Might Be Apprehensive About Putting Your Baby in Childcare 1. You may be
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What Is Postpartum Anxiety? Postpartum anxiety, or PPA, is a mental health condition following childbirth characterised by excessive and persistent worry, stress, fear and tension. The focus of this worry is often your baby’s safety, your own ability as a parent, and/or potential catastrophic outcomes. Anxiety is an essential part of being human. It helps
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What is Mum Burnout? ‘Mum burnout’ can be defined as intense physical, emotional, and mental exhaustion as a result of the relentless demands of caregiving. Burnout can leave you feeling overwhelmed, joyless, disconnected from your children, and as if you’re constantly failing as a mum. Sound familiar? I know I’ve felt like this at times
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Many of the mums I work with in therapy believe they should never lose their temper with their children. When this inevitably happens, it can lead to a significant amount of guilt and shame. I don’t want anyone to feel this way, so let’s explore what to do after losing your temper with your child.
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I’m sure I don’t need to tell you being a mother is an incredibly difficult job. Alongside all the joy, pride, and happiness, there are moments of overwhelm, despair, and complete exhaustion. Becoming a mother, whether it’s for the first time or the fifth, is a vulnerable time. Many people find themselves feeling isolated and
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