If you’ve previously struggled with your mental health during pregnancy or postpartum and you’re expecting another baby, being scared it’ll happen again makes perfect sense. Your fears aren’t unfounded – research shows you are more at risk of developing perinatal anxiety or depression if you have a previous history of these conditions. In this article, […]
Mum Stress – Why Are We So Susceptible? ‘Mum stress’ is a term used to describe the chronic mental, emotional and physical exhaustion mothers can experience. It stems from the relentless demands of caregiving, running a home, working, and living up to society’s ideals around what it means to be a ‘good mum’. There are
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Self-compassion is a powerful and effective tool that I believe should be part of everyone’s motherhood journey. It’s about being kind and understanding rather than harshly self-critical – offering yourself the same gentle, nurturing support you would give others. It’s acknowledging your own suffering and turning towards it, rather than away from it, to alleviate
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What Does Overwhelm Feel Like? Overwhelm tends to feel like you’re being stretched to your limits. You might feel more irritable than usual, or even angry. It can feel like your own needs aren’t being met because there’s just so many other things to organise, sort out, and do. Even if you’re aware of things
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‘Mum guilt’ is such a common experience, I probably don’t even need to describe it. I would go so far as to say all mums experience it to at least some degree, at some point in their motherhood journey. In my experience, mums tend to put a lot of pressure on themselves and have very
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When we’re preparing for the arrival of a new baby, we tend to focus on practicalities. You might have a nursery to decorate, and you’ll probably spend some time researching the best pram to buy. You’ll also think about the type of birth you’d like and maybe you’ll book on to some kind of antenatal
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What Does ‘Triggered’ Actually Mean? Being triggered means you’re experiencing a strong emotional and physical reaction in the present which is strongly linked to unprocessed past experiences. It’s a response that can happen in any situation where something feels similar to a previous traumatic experience. Essentially, you’re reliving the past in the present moment. The
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In my experience, unsolicited advice and motherhood go hand in hand. It often starts in pregnancy when we share our hopes and desires, perhaps related to labour and birth. Imagine telling someone you’re planning a homebirth and they respond by reeling off a list of awful reasons you shouldn’t. You can even find yourself on
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I’ve written extensively about your inner critic and how it can leave you feeling like a bad mum when really, you’re anything but. In this article, we’re going to explore the topic in more depth. As well as outlining three different types of inner critic, I’ll describe what each one sounds like and explain how
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Social Media & Motherhood – Let’s Look at the Positives Social media can definitely play a positive role in your motherhood journey. For example, it’s somewhere you can experience a sense of community. Making online mum friends through forums and support groups can be very beneficial, particularly for those who are isolated from family and
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