Podcast

Today I chat with Siti about the complexities of childhood trauma. She shares personal experiences and reflections on how various forms of childhood trauma, including emotional neglect, criticism, and lack of acceptance, have impacted her life into adulthood. We delve into the nuanced ways trauma manifests in behaviours, relationships, and self-perception, discussing the fear of […]

Today’s episode is all about the concept of ‘mum rage,’ which is characterised by intense, often inexplicable anger experienced by mothers. I unpack the two typical primary reasons behind mum rage: unmet needs and triggers of past experiences. Unmet needs can stem from the demands of childcare, work, and household management, leading to feelings of

Today I want to talk about the complexities of navigating Mother’s Day for people who have experienced childhood trauma, specifically abuse or neglect from their mothers. My hope for you is that this episode will give you the confidence to engage with Mother’s Day the way you need to, challenging societal expectations and the pressure

When I had my children I had no idea what ‘The Fourth Trimester’ was but learning about it has been so important for me and my clients. And I hope it will be as affirming for you too. The fourth trimester, which is first three months post-pregnancy, is such a significant time for mother and

Welcome to the latest episode of the Hold the Mother podcast. I’m Laura Hans, your host and perinatal psychotherapist, and today we’re diving into the world of maternal mental health. In this episode, I’m really excited to chat with you about something super important – how we can tackle those toxic thoughts that often creep

This week, I delve into the concept of self compassion in motherhood and why it’s so important in building resilience, reducing anxiety and depression and, ultimately, helping children model self compassion for themselves. As ever, I share personal experiences and insights, along with practical tips on how self compassion can be cultivated and maintained. Episode

In this episode of ‘Hold the Mother’, I discuss what to consider when therapy isn’t working. I explore signs of ineffective therapy, reasons it might not be working, and what you can do about it. I emphasise the importance of finding the right type of therapy, the appropriate mode of delivery, and a therapist that you

I am trained in both Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) and Eye Movement Desensitisation and Reprocessing (EMDR). The beauty of this is that I can draw upon each of the modalities at different points in your therapy journey. What I use and when will depend on your treatment needs and goals. This podcast episode explores how

Our inner child is the child part of us that carries all the pain we felt from not having our core needs met in childhood. To a certain degree, you could say we all have an inner child. However, people who were let down more often as children will tend to have a very strong

According to Tommy’s Pregnancy Charity, an estimated 1 in 5 pregnancies ends in miscarriage. Becoming pregnant after baby loss can be particularly anxiety provoking. This episode discusses my own experience of a missed miscarriage and may be triggering for some to listen to. Episode highlights: My own experience of having a miscarriage The signs of